Thursday, February 26, 2009

CONFIRMATION NAME of JULIANNE SAVOY

CLAIRE

JULIANNE SAVOY
Patron Saint - ST. CLAIRE




Cofoundress of the Order of Poor Ladies, or Clares, and first Abbess of San Damiano; born at Assisi, 16 July, 1194; died there 11 August, 1253.

She was the eldest daughter of Favorino Scifi, Count of Sasso-Rosso, the
wealthy representative of an ancient Roman family, who owned a large palace in Assisi and a castle on the slope of Mount Subasio. Such at least is the traditional account. Her mother, Bl. Ortolana, belonged to the noble family of Fiumi and was conspicuous for her zeal and piety.

From her earliest years Clare seems to have been endowed with the rarest
virtues. As a child she was most devoted to prayer and to practices of mortification, and as she passed into girlhood her distaste for the world and her yearning for a more spiritual life increased. She was eighteen years of age when St. Francis came to preach the Lenten course in the church of San Giorgio at Assisi. The inspired words of the Poverello kindled a flame in the heart of Clare; she sought him out secretly and begged him to help her that she too might live "after the manner of the holy Gospel". St. Francis, who at once recognized in Clare one of those chosen souls destined by God for great things, and who also, doubtless, foresaw that many would follow her example, promised to assist her. On Palm Sunday Clare, arrayed in all her finery, attended high Mass at the cathedral, but when the others pressed forward to the altar-rail to receive a branch of palm, she remained in her place as if rapt in a dream. All eyes were upon the young girl as the bishop descended from the sanctuary and placed the palm in her hand. That was the last time the world beheld Clare. On the night of the same day she secretly left her father's house, by St. Francis's advice and, accompanied by her aunt Bianca and another companion, proceeded to the humble chapel of the Porziuncula, where St. Francis and his disciples met her with lights in their hands. Clare then laid aside her rich dress, and St. Francis, having cut off her hair, clothed her in a rough tunic and a thick veil, and in this way the young heroine vowed herself to the service of Jesus Christ. This was 20 March, 1212.

Clare was placed by
St. Francis provisionally with the Benedictine nuns of San Paolo, near Bastia, but her father, who had expected her to make a splendid marriage, and who was furious at her secret flight, on discovering her retreat, did his utmost to dissuade Clare from her heroic proposals, and even tried to drag her home by force. But Clare held her own with a firmness above her years, and Count Favorino was finally obliged to leave her in peace. A few days later St. Francis, in order to secure Clare the greater solitude she desired, transferred her to Sant' Angelo in Panzo, another monastery of the Benedictine nuns on one of the flanks of Subasio. Here some sixteen days after her own flight, Clare was joined by her younger sister Agnes, whom she was instrumental in delivering from the persecution of their infuriated relatives. Clare and her sister remained with the nuns at Sant' Angelo until they and the other fugitives from the world who had followed them were established by St. Francis in a rude dwelling adjoining the poor chapel of San Damiano, situated outside the town which he had to a great extent rebuilt with his own hands, and which he now obtained from the Benedictines as a permanent abode for his spiritual daughters. Thus was founded the first community of the Order of Poor Ladies, or of Poor Clares, as this second order of St. Francis came to be called.

The history of the
Poor Clares will be dealt with in a separate article. Here it suffices to note that we may distinguish, during the lifetime of St. Clare, three stages in the complicated early history of the new order.

In the beginning St. Clare and her companions had no written rule to follow beyond a very short formula vitae given them by
St. Francis, and which may be found among his works. Some years later, apparently in 1219, during St. Francis's absence in the East, Cardinal Ugolino, then protector of the order, afterwards Gregory IX, drew up a written rule for the Clares at Monticelli, taking as a basis the Rule of St. Benedict, retaining the fundamental points of the latter and adding some special constitutions. This new rule, which, in effect if not in intention, took away from the Clares the Franciscan character of absolute poverty so dear to the heart of St. Francis and made them for all practical purposes a congregation of Benedictines, was approved by Honorius III (Bull, "Sacrosancta", 9 Dec., 1219). When Clare found that the new rule, though strict enough in other respects, allowed the holding of property in common, she courageously and successfully resisted the innovations of Ugolino as being entirely opposed to the intentions of St. Francis. The latter had forbidden the Poor Ladies, just as he had forbidden his friars to possess any worldly goods even in common. Owning nothing, they were to depend entirety upon what the Friars Minor could beg for them. This complete renunciation of all property was however regarded by Ugolino as unpractical for cloistered women. When, therefore, in 1228, he came to Assisi for the canonization of St. Francis (having meanwhile ascended the pontifical throne as Gregory IX), he visited St. Clare at San Damiano and pressed her to so far deviate from the practice of poverty which had up to this time obtained at San Damiano, as to accept some provision for the unforeseen wants of the community. But Clare firmly refused. Gregory, thinking that her refusal might be due to fear of violating the vow of strict poverty she had taken, offered to absolve her from it. "Holy Father, I crave for absolution from my sins", replied Clare, "but I desire not to be absolved from the obligation of following Jesus Christ".

The heroic unworldliness of Clare filled the
pope with admiration, as his letters to her, still extant, bear eloquent witness, and he so far gave way to her views as to grant her on 17 September, 1228, the celebrated Privilegium Paupertatis which some regard in the light of a corrective of the Rule of 1219. The original autograph copy of this unique "privilege"--the first one of its kind ever sought for, or ever issued by the Holy See--is preserved in the archive at Santa Chiara in Assisi. The text is as follows:

Gregory Bishop Servant of the Servants of God. To our beloved daughters in Christ Clare and the other handmaids of Christ dwelling together at the Church of San Damiano in the Diocese of Assisi. Health and Apostolic benediction. It is evident that the desire of consecrating yourselves to God alone has led you to abandon every wish for temporal things. Wherefore, after having sold all your goods and having distributed them among the poor, you propose to have absolutely no possessions, in order to follow in all things the example of Him Who became poor and Who is the way, the truth, and the life. Neither does the want of necessary things deter you from such a proposal, for the left arm of your Celestial Spouse is beneath your head to sustain the infirmity of your body, which, according to the order of charity, you have subjected to the law of the spirit. Finally, He who feeds the birds of the air and who gives the lilies of the field their raiment and their nourishment, will not leave you in want of clothing or of food until He shall come Himself to minister to you in eternity when, namely, the right hand of His consolations shall embrace you in the plenitude of the Beatific Vision. Since, therefore, you have asked for it, we confirm by Apostolic favour your resolution of the loftiest poverty and by the authority of these present letters grant that you may not be constrained by anyone to receive possessions. To no one, therefore, be it allowed to infringe upon this page of our concession or to oppose it with rash temerity. But if anyone shall presume to attempt this, be it known to him that he shall incur the wrath of Almighty God and his Blessed Apostles, Peter and Paul. Given at Perugia on the fifteenth of the Kalends of October in the second year of our Pontificate."
That St. Clare may have solicited a
"privilege" similar to the foregoing at an earlier date and obtained it vivâ voce, is not improbable. Certain it is that after the death of Gregory IX Clare had once more to contend for the principle of absolute poverty prescribed by St. Francis, for Innocent IV would fain have given the Clares a new and mitigated rule, and the firmness with which she held to her way won over the pope. Finally, two days before her death, Innocent, no doubt at the reiterated request of the dying abbess, solemnly confirmed the definitive Rule of the Clares (Bull, "Solet Annuere", 9 August, 1253), and thus secured to them the precious treasure of poverty which Clare, in imitation of St. Francis, had taken for her portion from the beginning of her conversion. The author of this latter rule, which is largely an adaptation mutatis mutandis, of the rule which St. Francis composed for the Friars Minor in 1223, seems to have been Cardinal Rainaldo, Bishop of Ostia, and protector of the order, afterwards Alexander IV, though it is most likely that St. Clare herself had a hand in its compilation. Be this as it may, it can no longer be maintained that St. Francis was in any sense the author of this formal Rule of the Clares; he only gave to St. Clare and her companions at the outset of their religious life the brief formula vivendi already mentioned.
St. Clare, who in 1215 had, much against her will been made superior at San Damiano by
St. Francis, continued to rule there as abbess until her death, in 1253, nearly forty years later. There is no good reason to believe that she ever once went beyond the boundaries of San Damiano during all that time. It need not, therefore, be wondered at if so comparatively few details of St. Clare's life in the cloister "hidden with Christ in God", have come down to us. We know that she became a living copy of the poverty, the humility, and the mortification of St. Francis; that she had a special devotion to the Holy Eucharist, and that in order to increase her love for Christ crucified she learned by heart the Office of the Passion composed by St. Francis, and that during the time that remained to her after her devotional exercises she engaged in manual labour. Needless to add, that under St. Clare's guidance the community of San Damiano became the sanctuary of every virtue, a very nursery of saints. Clare had the consolation not only of seeing her younger sister Beatrix, her mother Ortolana, and her faithful aunt Bianca follow Agnes into the order, but also of witnessing the foundation of monasteries of Clares far and wide throughout Europe. It would be difficult, moreover, to estimate how much the silent influence of the gentle abbess did towards guiding the women of medieval Italy to higher aims. In particular, Clare threw around poverty that irresistible charm which only women can communicate to religious or civic heroism, and she became a most efficacious coadjutrix of St. Francis in promoting that spirit of unworldliness which in the counsels of God, "was to bring about a restoration of discipline in the Church and of morals and civilization in the peoples of Western Europe". Not the least important part of Clare's work was the aid and encouragement she gave St. Francis. It was to her he turned when in doubt, and it was she who urged him to continue his mission to the people at a time when he thought his vocation lay rather in a life of contemplation. When in an attack of blindness and illness, St. Francis came for the last time to visit San Damiano, Clare erected a little wattle hut for him in an olive grove close to the monastery, and it was here that he composed his glorious "Canticle of the Sun". After St. Francis's death the procession which accompanied his remains from the Porziuncula to the town stopped on the way at San Damiano in order that Clare and her daughters might venerate the pierced hands and feet of him who had formed them to the love of Christ crucified--a pathetic scene which Giotto has commemorated in one of his loveliest frescoes. So far, however, as Clare was concerned, St. Francis was always living, and nothing is, perhaps, more striking in her after-life than her unswerving loyalty to the ideals of the Poverello, and the jealous care with which she clung to his rule and teaching.
When, in 1234, the army of
Frederick II was devastating the valley of Spoleto, the soldiers, preparatory to an assault upon Assisi, scaled the walls of San Damiano by night, spreading terror among the community. Clare, calmly rising from her sick bed, and taking the ciborium from the little chapel adjoining her cell, proceeded to face the invaders at an open window against which they had already placed a ladder. It is related that, as she raised the Blessed Sacrament on high, the soldiers who were about to enter the monastery fell backward as if dazzled, and the others who were ready to follow them took flight. It is with reference to this incident that St. Clare is generally represented in art bearing a ciborium.

When, some time later, a larger force returned to storm
Assisi, headed by the General Vitale di Aversa who had not been present at the first attack, Clare, gathering her daughters about her, knelt with them in earnest prayer that the town might be spared. Presently a furious storm arose, scattering the tents of the soldiers in every direction, and causing such a panic that they again took refuge in flight. The gratitude of the Assisians, who with one accord attributed their deliverance to Clare's intercession, increased their love for the "Seraphic Mother". Clare had long been enshrined in the hearts of the people, and their veneration became more apparent as, wasted by illness and austerities, she drew towards her end. Brave and cheerful to the last, in spite of her long and painful infirmities, Clare caused herself to be raised in bed and, thus reclining, says her contemporary biographer "she spun the finest thread for the purpose of having it woven into the most delicate material from which she afterwards made more than one hundred corporals, and, enclosing them in a silken burse, ordered them to be given to the churches in the plain and on the mountains of Assisi". When at length she felt the day of her death approaching, Clare, calling her sorrowing religious around her, reminded them of the many benefits they had received from God and exhorted them to persevere faithfully in the observance of evangelical poverty. Pope Innocent IV came from Perugia to visit the dying saint, who had already received the last sacraments from the hands of Cardinal Rainaldo. Her own sister, St. Agnes, had returned from Florence to console Clare in her last illness; Leo, Angelo, and Juniper, three of the early companions of St. Francis, were also present at the saint's death-bed, and at St. Clare's request read aloud the Passion of Our Lord according to St. John, even as they had done twenty-seven years before, when Francis lay dying at the Porziuncula. At length before dawn on 11 August, 1253, the holy foundress of the Poor Ladies passed peacefully away amid scenes which her contemporary biographer has recorded with touching simplicity. The pope, with his court, came to San Damiano for the saint's funeral, which partook rather of the nature of a triumphal procession.

The Clares desired to retain the
body of their foundress among them at San Damiano, but the magistrates of Assisi interfered and took measures to secure for the town the venerated remains of her whose prayers, as they all believed, had on two occasions saved it from destruction. Clare's miracles too were talked of far and wide. It was not safe, the Assisians urged, to leave Clare's body in a lonely spot without the walls; it was only right, too, that Clare, "the chief rival of the Blessed Francis in the observance of Gospel perfection", should also have a church in Assisi built in her honour. Meanwhile, Clare's remains were placed in the chapel of San Giorgio, where St. Francis's preaching had first touched her young heart, and where his own body had likewise been interred pending the erection of the Basilica of San Francesco. Two years later, 26 September, 1255, Clare was solemnly canonized by Alexander IV, and not long afterwards the building of the church of Santa Chiara, in honour of Assisi's second great saint, was begun under the direction of Filippo Campello, one of the foremost architects of the time. On 3 October, 1260, Clare's remains were transferred from the chapel of San Giorgio and buried deep down in the earth, under the high altar in the new church, far out of sight and reach. After having remained hidden for six centuries--like the remains of St. Francis--and after much search had been made, Clare's tomb was found in 1850, to the great joy of the Assisians. On 23 September in that year the coffin was unearthed and opened, the flesh and clothing of the saint had been reduced to dust, but the skeleton was in a perfect state of preservation. Finally, on the 29th of September, 1872, the saint's bones were transferred, with much pomp, by Archbishop Pecci, afterwards Leo XIII, to the shrine, in the crypt at Santa Chiara, erected to receive them, and where they may now be seen. The feast of St. Clare is celebrated throughout the Church on 12 August later changed to 11 August -- Ed.; the feast of her first translation is kept in the order on 3 October, and that of the finding of her body on 23 September.

CONFIRMATION NAME of KYRSTEN VAN NATTA

SOFIA

KYRSTEN VAN NATTA
Patron Saint - ST. SOFIA



According to an Eastern allegory explaining the cult of Divine Wisdom, Faith, Hope, and Charity were the daughters of Wisdom (known as Sofia in the Roman Martyrology on September 30th), a widow in Rome. The daughters suffered martyrdom during Hadrian's persecution of Christians: Faith, twelve, was scourged and went unharmed when boiling pitch was poured on her, was beheaded; Hope, ten, and Charity, nine, were also beheaded after emerging unscathed, from a furnace; and Wisdom died three days later while praying at their graves

St. Sofia and her three daughters

To how much written by the it was Mons. Mr. Matteo Guida, nothing I hold to add; I will confine me to repeat, partly, what is read in his brief historical-critical study. The Sirleto Guglielmo (1514-85), Cardinal Prefect of the Library Vaticana, believes that S. Sofia both of Greek nationality, induced to think so that the Hellenic names of the mother Sofia (Wisdom) and of the three daughters Pistis (Faith), Elpis (Hope), Agapis (Charity). The Surius says that the country of S. Sofia is uncertain, but it is certain, however, that she is Italian glory. The Sigonio Carlo (1520-84) Historical, that quotes S. Beda, it believes that S. Sofia was born in Milan. S. Sofia lived between the end of the first century and the principle of the second and suffered the martyrdom with the three daughters under the emperor Adriano (76-138) and the Pontiff Alexander I (105-116). If the city of origin cannot be specified, it can be affirmed with certainty that died in Rome. In the flower of the youth, characterized by so much fascinating goodness, Sofia, to satisfy the desire of her relatives, that wanted her submitted to a companion of life, married perhaps Filandro, young and rich senator, as on the authority of S. Beda, it attests the Sigonio. From his/her marriage three daughters were born, to which the names of Faith, Hope and Charity were given. This doesn't have to arouse wonder, if the Christians of the first centuries loved to take, in the Baptism, an agnonem that had meant mystical. We have so the names of Lucina (Pomponia Grecina) of Redemptus, Renatus, Renovatus, etc. After few years of marriage, Filandro died, of which, to reason, it is had to believe that he had embraced the Christian faith, because her bride, that lived the virtues recommended by the Book of the Proverbs of the Writing, interested him of her eternal salvation.

St. Sofia and her three daughters martyrs

Died her husband, S. Sofia definite to leave Milan. Saint Sofia was very rich and she distributed her wealths to the poor men and she departed for Rome. Field of its job was the service to the heroic confessors of the Christian faith, with the assiduous visit to the jails, where a lot of they were confined. Such her behavior didn't escape emperor Adriano's eye, which wanted in front of its mother court and daughters. Not the takings the fear, but fearless, the mother before and later the three daughters professed the faith in the Christ Salvatore, prepared to bear whatever torture, they didn't deny the faith received in the Baptism. To the flattering promises as to the threats of the judge, I will dictate test of nothing to fear, desirous only to receive the Baptism of blood, that is the martyrdom. The mother was bared and cruelly whipped, after she was engraved on her forehead the mark of the infamy.

Gotten further the mother, the tyrant separately questioned the three daughters hoping to be able to make her divert from the religion of Christ. All him used, with the good ones and the sad ways, but uselessly. Raging of anger, it submitted her to his judges, because they were severely punished, also with the death. Before Faith, then Hope and in last Charity you/they were submitted to unheard of torments and then you behead. Done her daughters, that it was of it of Sofia die? Here it is the case to repeat: «Various Varii dicunt» there are that is different opinions. According to some Actas Martyrum of oriental origin, not historical, S. Sofia, Christian widow, Rome was martyred to, in the 2° century, on the grave of her daughters Faith, Hope and Charity, also them martyrs. (Diz. Encyclopedic Sansoni). Among Lawrence Surio, the martyrology Galliano and the menelogio Sirlezianos say that S. Sofia, three days later, while it was praying on the grave of her daughters, made her soul to God. The Baronio in the Annalses of the Church, writes that death happened two months later. Sofia was deposed in the same sepulchre of her daughters, whose martyrdom is thought happened in the month of August. Of this opinion is the writer Piero Bargellini. The Roman martyrology ago mention of S. Sofia and his/her three daughters the day 30 September. It has been said that the body of S. Sofia was deposed in the same sepulchre of her daughters, but where was the sepulchre? The hagiographic documents consulted has allowed to set with certainty on the street Aurelia the burial of S. Sofia and her three daughters, you martyr to emperor Adriano's time; says sepulchre was revered by the believers since the You and VII century. It also speaks of these holy martyrs to the maryirology of Adone, as also later in that of Usuardo. That grave, however, was honorable in Rome, a lot of time before, because the lndex Oleorum of Monza (sec. VI) and the itinerary of Salisburgo (century VII) they prove that among those graves, in the Catecombes, in front of which it made him burn the oil and that were visited by the believers, there was also the grave of S. Sofia and her three daughters. The Baronio (1538-1607) it assures that to his times he was not lost the memory of a monument raised on the street Aurelia to S. Sofia, mother of the three virgins and martyrs Faith, Hope and Charity. Where are the deadly rests of S. Sofia and its three daughters found today? The body of S. Sofia, in a first time, was moved from the street Aurelia to the church of S. Giulia in Brescia. The queen Handle, Desiderio's wife, last king of the Longobardis, he wanted to enrich the monastery of S. Giulia, where the Benedictine nuns were (monastery that had been founded from her and from his/her reality consort) and it gave monastery to the motto the body of the holy one. Suppressed the monastery of S. Giulia, to the time of the French revolution, the body of S. Sofia as that of S. Giulia and of other saints, it passed from the said church in that of S. Agata, in the same city of Brescia. April 3 rd 1799, for interest of the Canonical Maladori of Virle Treponti and the high-ranked Virlesis, the bishop allowed that the containing urn the body of the holy one, from the church of S. Agata was transferred to Virle. The memorable event filled with joy the whole citizen Virlese. The actions of concession, of translation and of authenticity they preserve him in the parish file of Virle, while the original one of the menelogio Sirleziano that speaks, as it has been said, of S. Sofia and of his/her three daughters, it is found in the library Marcelliana of Clear. The sacred leftovers of Faith and Hope were brought in France in silver boxes, and before the 89 revolution, they were preserved to Notre Dame de Visau, in the Diocese of Cahors. The body of S. Agape (Charity) it is found whole in the Prepositurale of Clear, of which is Patrona.

RETREAT INSTRUCTIONS

Hello Everyone,

I would like to give you this last minute instruction for the Confirmation Retreat.

CONFIRMATION RETREAT
Saturday, February 28, 2009
10am-4pm

ARCHDIOCESE OF NEWARK YOUTH CENTER
499 Belgrove Drive, Kearny, NJ 07032
Phone: (201)998-0088/ Fax: (201)299-0801

Please know that we are not meeting at St. Joseph School Parking lot anymore. Please go directly to the Archdiocesan Youth Retreat Center and plan to be there before 10:00AM. As you arrive, please look for me (Fr. Manolo). With me as Chaperones are Katherine Paredes and Maura Walsh. Both are wonderful parent-volunteers who also are our parish catechists. The day will begin when all registered groups arrive. We will gather in the Gym building (labeled “Boystown”), next to the church towards the front of our property

The basic schedule of the day is as follows:

10am Registration, Welcome, Prayer, Games (Gym)
11am Breakout Sessions, activities and reflections (Retreat Center, Basement Level)
12pm Hot Lunch and Free Time (Dining Hall)
1pm Keynote by Chris Padgett (Gym)
2pm Breakout Sessions, activities and reflections (Retreat Center, Basement Level)
3pm Closing Mass (Church Building)
4pm Dismissal from Church Building


PROGRAM
This is a mega– style Confirmation retreat with candidates for the reception of the Sacrament of confirmation for the other parishes of the Archdiocese of Newark. Participants in this retreat get to experience the larger Church community by meeting youth from other parishes who are on the same journey.

We will be engaging in …discussions, prayer, activities, Reconciliation experience, Mass, community building and fun. Everyone’s participation is important to the group, so we look forward to perfect attendance. If you have any question or concern, please call Fr. Manolo right away.


KEYNOTE SPEAKERS

Chris Padgett

Chris has utilized music and stories to convey the love of Christ to a generation in need of Good News for close to a decade. Chris is a popular Keynote Speaker and Performer at National and local Youth Rallies, Conferences and Retreats including the Steubenville East Conferences, and National Catholic Youth Conferences. Chris will definitely entertain and enrich the young people present!

Fr. John Gordon

Currently parochial vicar at Holy Family Church in Nutley, has been very involved in the Catholic Charismatic movement and has been a prominent presence at the Franciscan University of Steubenville’s Youth Conferences.

Fr. John has a great love for young people and a zeal for Christ! He will celebrate the Liturgy of the Eucharist to close out our retreat day.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

PALSM TO ASHES ASSIGNMENTS

PALMS TO ASHES
Rite of the bUrning of Palms
Sunday, February 22, beginning at 7PM

PALMS TO ASHES ASSIGNMENTS
Plan to arrive 6:30 for instructions..

Readers:
1. Nicole Basili
2. Saira Chavez
3. Kaitlin Kling
4. Nicholas Doddo
5. Fayola Etienne
6. Richard Moorehead
7. Julianne Savoy

Trumpeteer
1. Sean Hack

Alleluia Banner Bearers
1. Evan Accardi
2. Alyssa Cioffi
3. Louis Duszynski
4. Sarah Hilton
5. Christian Cetina
6. Jilienne Landicho
7. Kyrsten Van Natta
8. Laura Marino

Palm Burning Assistants
1. Jessica Mejia
2. Anthony Paredes
3. Elven Pasteur
4. Lahens Rechime

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

A FASCINATING SOUPER BOWL, FROM START TO FINISH

A fascinating Souper Bowl, from start to finish

Photos of the SOUPER BOWL OF CARING SUNDAY, go to this link:
http://picasaweb.google.com/stjosephinformationservice/SOUPERBOWLOFCARING2009#

The Super Bowl was fascinating from start to finish, and for the fourth quarter, both teams saved the best for last. The stadium lights are out, the film rooms have gone dark, but the final act of the 2008 NFL season remains, and that is, the love and sacrifice that went to the SOUP POTS last Sunday. It was a fascinating SOUPER BOWL of CARING from start to finish. Thanks to our young parishioners who took the lead in the campaign and thanks to all of you for making a difference in the fight against hunger. Souper Bowl of Caring 2009 broke last year’s record-setting total, raising $1,537.00 in donations. The money will go to our Parish Food Pantry.

FEBRUARY 8 CONFIRMATION PREPARATION SESSION

GOAL: The candidates deepen their understanding of their fundamental relationship with Christ begun in Baptism and what it means to be anointed in His image.
ACTIONS:11:30 AM - Mass with active participation in the Liturgy
12:30-1:00 PM - light lunch

LUNCH VOLUNTEERS
Anthony & Andrea Marino
Luis & Karina Cetina
Amanda Mejia
Elven Pasteur

1:00 - 2:30 PM : Sixth Session: More Like Christ
SERVICE REQUIREMENTS: At this point, the candidate is expected to have completed a total of 10 hours of the Christian Service Project. Forms will be collected during the session.

RETREAT REMINDERS:
- All the documents necessary for the Retreat on February 28 and the $20.00 Retreat Fee.
- Parents should already figure out and arrange for caro-pooling to and from the retreat house.
PROJECT III - Selecting a Confirmation Name
Candidates must create and submit a Confirmation project that shows a knowledge and understanding of the saint whose name they are choosing as their own Confirmation name. Candidates may also choose to just retain their Baptismal name.
Projects do not necessarily have to be written reports. Indeed, candidates are encouraged to be creative and original. Projects could posters, models, dioramas, screenplays, mobiles, first-person narratives written from the point of view of the saint, sculptures, woodcarvings – the possibilities are limited only by your imagination!
Projects will be presented at the February 8 session and then displayed for the entire parish community during Confirmation week!Candidates may work together with family, friends, and/or fellow candidates to complete this project.
The Program Coordinator reserves the right to return projects to candidates for further work if the submitted work does not reflect the individual’s attention, care, effort, and/or reverence required for participation in this program.
A good place to start researching saints is the Catholic Online website, www.catholic.org/saints/. There you will find an alphabetical index of saints, an index of patron saints, and a calendar with saints’ feast days, among other useful tools.In starting to research saints and complete their projects, candidates may want to consider the following questions:·
How and why did your parents choose your baptismal name?·
What activities, places, people, etc. interest you?
Is there a patron saint associated with any of these ?·
Which saints have their feast day on your birthday?·
Which saints inspire you? Why?·
When and where did the saint you are interested in live?·
When was he/she canonized? By which pope?·
How did this saint die? Was he/she persecuted and/or martyred for his/her beliefs?·
What was this saint’s occupation?·
What did this saint’s mission look like?·
What virtues did this saint practice in his/her life?
Did this saint always practice these virtues?
Did this saint experience a conversion?·
How would you describe this saint’s personality?·
What miracles did this saint perform?·
Are there any symbols associated with this saint?·
What are their meanings?·
In what ways is this saint a model for Christians today?·
How would this saint act/react if he/she were living in today’s world?·
If this saint were to complete a Confirmation project on his/her own life, what kind of project would he/she create?
FEBRUARY 22
Rite of the Burning of the Palm for Ash Wednesday 7:00 p.m. to begin our Parish Mission. Attendance Required.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

SOUPER BOWL SUNDAY - February 1 in all Masses


SOUPER BOWL SUNDAY
Confirmation Candidates to Collect Dollars for our Parish Food Pantry

The Pittsburgh Steelers know all about the Super Bowl, having made six previous appearances and won five titles. The Arizona Cardinals are new to the big stage, but they've won three playoff games in decisive fashion to reach Tampa.

As these football teams play each other in Tampa Bay, Florida, our candidates for Confirmation will try to score a touchdown for our Parish Food Pantry on Super Bowl XLIII, February 1, 2009.

"The Souper Bowl of Caring" is an annual parish event and is a great opportunity to help the needy. Our young parishioners will use that weekend, transforming the days of parties and celebrations into a day of caring for the hungry and hurting.

Armed with soup pots, they will be at the doors of the church, collecting $1 from each person walking by in all Masses next Sunday.

Candidates will be credited an hour per Mass that they volunteer to collect the Souper Bowl donation from the parishioners.

Please call the parish office to sign-up for the Mass Time you would like to volunteer. The earlier you call, it is most likely that you will get your desired Mass Time to volunteer.

Saturday, January 31, 5:30 PM - 4 volunteers needed.
Sunday, February 1, 9:00 AM - 8 volunteers needed.
Sunday, February 1, 11:30 AM - 8 volunteers needed.

NB. The Youth Group will cover the 7:30 AM Mass.

FEBRUARY 8 SESSION

FEBRUARY 8 SESSION

GOAL:
The candidates deepen their understanding of their fundamental relationship with Christ begun in Baptism and what it means to be anointed in His image.

ACTIONS:
11:30 AM - Mass with active participation in the Liturgy
12:30-1:00 PM - light lunch
1:00 - 2:30 PM : Sixth Session: More Like Christ

Service Requirements:
At this point, the candidate is expected to have completed a total of 10 hours of the Christian Service Project. Forms will be collected during the session.

PROJECT - SELECTING A CONFIRMATION NAME -

PROJECT III - Selecting a Confirmation Name
-to be submitted on February 8

Candidates must create and submit a Confirmation project that shows a knowledge and understanding of the saint whose name they are choosing as their own Confirmation name. Candidates may also choose to just retain their Baptismal name.

Projects do not necessarily have to be written reports. Indeed, candidates are encouraged to be creative and original. Projects could posters, models, dioramas, screenplays, mobiles, first-person narratives written from the point of view of the saint, sculptures, woodcarvings – the possibilities are limited only by your imagination!

Projects will be presented at the February 8 session and then displayed for the entire parish community during Confirmation week!

Candidates may work together with family, friends, and/or fellow candidates to complete this project.

The Program Coordinator reserves the right to return projects to candidates for further work if the submitted work does not reflect the individual’s attention, care, effort, and/or reverence required for participation in this program.

A good place to start researching saints is the Catholic Online website, www.catholic.org/saints/. There you will find an alphabetical index of saints, an index of patron saints, and a calendar with saints’ feast days, among other useful tools.

In starting to research saints and complete their projects, candidates may want to consider the following questions:

· How and why did your parents choose your baptismal name?
· What activities, places, people, etc. interest you? Is there a patron saint associated with any of these ?
· Which saints have their feast day on your birthday?
· Which saints inspire you? Why?
· When and where did the saint you are interested in live?
· When was he/she canonized? By which pope?
· How did this saint die? Was he/she persecuted and/or martyred for his/her beliefs?
· What was this saint’s occupation?
· What did this saint’s mission look like?
· What virtues did this saint practice in his/her life? Did this saint always practice these virtues

Did this saint experience a conversion?
· How would you describe this saint’s personality?
· What miracles did this saint perform?
· Are there any symbols associated with this saint?
· What are their meanings?
· In what ways is this saint a model for Christians today?
· How would this saint act/react if he/she were living in today’s world?
· If this saint were to complete a Confirmation project on his/her own life, what kind of project would he/she create?

From PALMS to ASHES - Sunday, February 22 at 7PM











From Palms to Ashes
-the Rite of Burning of Palms for Ash Wednesday

To reinforce the origin and symbolism of the ashes used on Ash Wednesday we would like to invite all of our parishioners to bring their palm fronds from Palm Sunday on February 22, 2009 at 7:00 PM, the Sunday before Lent starts so we can burn them prior to Ash Wednesday.

Palms from the previous year's Palm Sunday are burned and the resulting ashes imposed on the foreheads of worshippers on Ash Wednesday, February 25, on which Lent begins.

We encourage all of you to gather the old palm from pictures and crucifixes. Carefully — because it is a sacramental — we burn it as a lesson on the "dust" we are and to which we must return. It means so much to all of us Christians if we can burn our own piece of palm as an expression and confirmation of a Lenten resolution we made. However let us take care that these resolutions are not just negative "give-ups," and "do-aways," but positive "build-ups," overflowing from a new abundant charity and love requiring outward expression. So is fasting only one factor of Lent, needing the compensation of prayer and good deeds.

CONFIRMATION RETREAT
Saturday, February 28, 2009
10am-4pm


LOCATION
ARCHDIOCESE OF NEWARK YOUTH CENTER
499 Belgrove Drive, Kearny, NJ 07032
Phone: (201)998-0088/ Fax: (201)299-0801

PROGRAM
This is a mega– style Confirmation retreat with candidates for the reception of the Sacrament of confirmation for the other parishes of the Archdiocese of Newark. Participants in this retreat get to experience the larger Church community by meeting youth from other parishes who are on the same journey.

We will be engaging in …discussions, prayer, activities, Reconciliation experience, Mass, community building and fun. Everyone’s participation is important to the group, so we look forward to perfect attendance. If you have any question or concern, please call Fr. Manolo right away.

KEYNOTE SPEAKERS

Chris Padgett
Chris has utilized music and stories to convey the love of Christ to a generation in need of Good News for close to a decade. Chris is a popular Keynote Speaker and Performer at National and local Youth Rallies, Conferences and Retreats including the Steubenville East Conferences, and National Catholic Youth Conferences. Chris will definitely entertain and enrich the young people present!


Fr. John Gordon
Currently parochial vicar at Holy Family Church in Nutley, has been very involved in the Catholic Charismatic movement and has been a prominent presence at the Franciscan University of Steubenville’s Youth Conferences.
Fr. John has a great love for young people and a zeal for Christ! He will celebrate the Liturgy of the Eucharist to close out our retreat day.

FEE: $20.00 per person (includes hot lunch)

TRANSPORTATION
We request parents to bring their kids to the Retreat Center. Parents can arrange and agree among themselves when they decide to car pool. We will leave St. Joseph Church together that day. Details of our assembly time at the Church parking lot will be announced.

REQUIRED FORMS
1. Permission and Release
2. Code of Behavior
3. Health Form

Please complete all the needed documents and bring to the Confirmation Session on February 8







Monday, January 5, 2009

FIFTH SESSION - JANUARY 11

JANUARY 11
ACTIONS:11:30 AM - Mass with active participation in the Liturgy

12:30-1:00 PM - light lunch

Family Volunteers
Mary Beth Walsh
Carl & Kathy Kling
John & Ingrid Accardi
Jose Agila/Martina Chavez

1:00 - 2:30 PM : Fifth Session: In the Strength of his love and The Oil of Salvation

GOAL:
The candidates focus on the strength given in Confirmation that comes from the increased measure of the treasures of God’s life in the sacrament - the gift of the Spirit.

The candidates explore the symbol of anointing with oil and its profound significance in Confirmation.

PROJECT III - Selecting a Confirmation Name
- to be presented on February 6 Session

Candidates must create and submit a Confirmation project that shows a knowledge and understanding of the saint whose name they are choosing as their own Confirmation name. Candidates may also choose to just retain their Baptismal name.
Projects do not necessarily have to be written reports. Indeed, candidates are encouraged to be creative and original. Projects could posters, models, dioramas, screenplays, mobiles, first-person narratives written from the point of view of the saint, sculptures, woodcarvings – the possibilities are limited only by your imagination!
Projects will be presented at the February 8 session and then displayed for the entire parish community during Confirmation week!
Candidates may work together with family, friends, and/or fellow candidates to complete this project.
The Program Coordinator reserves the right to return projects to candidates for further work if the submitted work does not reflect the individual’s attention, care, effort, and/or reverence required for participation in this program.

A good place to start researching saints is the Catholic Online website, www.catholic.org/saints/. There you will find an alphabetical index of saints, an index of patron saints, and a calendar with saints’ feast days, among other useful tools.

In starting to research saints and complete their projects, candidates may want to consider the following questions:

· How and why did your parents choose your baptismal name?· What activities, places, people, etc. interest you? Is there a patron saint associated with any of these ?· Which saints have their feast day on your birthday?· Which saints inspire you? Why?· When and where did the saint you are interested in live?· When was he/she canonized? By which pope?· How did this saint die? Was he/she persecuted and/or martyred for his/her beliefs?· What was this saint’s occupation?· What did this saint’s mission look like?· What virtues did this saint practice in his/her life? Did this saint always practice these virtues? Did this saint experience a conversion?· How would you describe this saint’s personality?· What miracles did this saint perform?· Are there any symbols associated with this saint?· What are their meanings?· In what ways is this saint a model for Christians today?· How would this saint act/react if he/she were living in today’s world?· If this saint were to complete a Confirmation project on his/her own life, what kind of project would he/she create?

Service Requirements:
At this point, the candidate is expected to have completed a total of 8 hours of the Christian Service Project. Forms will be collected during the session.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Xt3 - more than a social network.

Connect with millions. Share the experience. Build a better world.

Launched at WYD08, Xt3 is the fastest growing social network of its kind, with members throughout the world from over 200 countries. Xt3 connects you with people who want to make a difference and helps you build a better world. Everyone is welcome.

“You young people have in a special way the task of witnessing today to the faith; the commitment to bring the Gospel of Christ into the third Christian Millennium, to build a new civilization - a civilization of love, of justice and of peace.”(Pope John Paul II's message to young people at World Youth Day, 1989 Santiago de Compostella)
Xt3.com is a social networking site that grew out of July's World Youth Day in Sydney has brought Vatican attention and approval, says the city's archbishop.Cardinal George Pell, who has his own profile page on Xt3.com, returned from Rome with news of the Vatican's support and encouragement."Xt3.com provides young people with news, resources, events, charity projects, advice and interactive pages -- all within a safe environment," the cardinal said.
The Web site -- a Catholic version of Facebook or MySpace -- targets young people between the ages of 16 and 35 and gives dioceses around the world their own pages. Already more than 40,000 young people from over 170 countries have joined.With a new agreement, a Vatican library of media material has been made available for use on Xt3.com.One of the most popular pages at the site is "Ask a Priest." This feature gives young people the opportunity to question and come to understand a variety of Catholic teachings.The site is planning programs for dioceses around Australia and New Zealand and is set to become part of Oceania Catholic secondary schools' religious education programs, through the use of its interactive network. "Considerable work has been undertaken in the development and growth strategy of Xt3.com and I am very excited about the enormous possibilities this technology provides with the ability to link young people to the Church," Cardinal Pell said. "It all focuses on young people who are searching for answers to the many challenges they face in the modern world."

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

DECEMBER 14 - CONFIRMATION SESSION 4

GOAL:
The candidates focus on the strength given in Confirmation, that comes from the increased measure of the treasures of God’s life in the sacrament - the gift of the Spirit.

ACTIONS:
11:30 AM - Mass with special intercession for candidates.
- Please arrive at 11:10 for your assignments during the Liturgy.
-People will be asked to pick the names of candidates and pray for the candidates’ intentions until the day of Confirmation.

12:30-1:00 PM - light lunch

Family Volunteers
Doris Lewanski
Amanda Mejia

1:00 - 2:30 PM : Fourth Session

SERVICE REQUIREMENTS:
At this point, the candidate is expected to have completed a total of 6 hours of the Christian Service Project. Forms will be collected during the session.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

CHRISTIAN SERVICE OPPORTUNITIES AT ST. JOSEPH CHURCH


1. Sunday, November 23 at 2pm.
St. Joseph Church
- to help collect the Old Missal and distribute the New Missal in the pews.
- Please Call Fr. Manolo for more details.

2. Wednesday, November 26 at 4pm
St. Joseph Rectory
- to help wrap the bread to be distributed after the Thanksgiving Mass on Thursday, December 27

- to help prepare the tags for the Giving Tree.
- Please call Fr. Manolo for more details.

Monday, November 10, 2008

CONFIRMATION CANDIDATES AND SPONSORS - an Encounter and the Conversation

During the Third Session of the Confirmation Preparation Program for the year 2009 at St. Joseph Parish, the candidates were asked to bring their Sponsors with them. The attendance was impressive except for a few who, for some various reasons, we re not able to make it to the encounter. As usual, they were all at Church for the 11:30 Mass and the kids took the lead in some liturgical functions such as to help collect the tithings, present the gifts to the altar and distribute the bulletin to people as they leave church after the Mass.

A big THANK YOU to the generous parents who prepared and donated the lunch for over 40 people (including the sponsors).

The session was intended not to be a sit-down lecture on Catechesis about Confirmation. The goal of the session was primarily "AN ENCOUNTER AND CONVERSATION" between the candidates and the sponsors.

After the Opening Prayer, we began with the candidates introducing their sponsors to the group. Afterwards, they were divided into 4 groups for a group conversation.

A simple but quite extensive booklet was prepared for this encounter. They were quite surprised that they were asked to gather into small groups without a prepared outline on how to go about with the discussion. It was designed to be that way so that it will be a free flowing sharing. This was aimed at developing an open and casual communication between the candidate and the sponsor. The discussion led to the discovery of the important role that the candidate should play in choosing his or her sponsor and the willingness and commitment of the sponsor to take up the duty in helping them up to become a faithful children of God.
Towards the end of the conversation, the sponsors signed the Acceptance Form to signify their willingness and commtment which says:
I have carefully read the guidelines for sponsors.
I am in good standing with the Catholic Church.
I practice my faith and the celebration of my life
and God’s life at Mass on Sundays.
I realize the importance of my good example
in encouraging all whom I meet in their journey
toward a closer relationship with God,
the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

With love for God and my fellow man,
I accept my responsibility as a sponsor for

________________________________________
(Name of the Candidate)
Before the encounter ended, the sponsors helped the candidates write a simple prayer of petition stating their personal intentions as they prepare to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. These prayer are addressed to all the parishioners of St. Joseph Church. These prayers will be reproduced and be available at the doors of the Church for all the parishioners people to pick up on December 14 and pray for the candidates until the day of the celebration.

Positive things came out of the encounter. Sponsors were challenged to be part of the formation of the candidates by joining them and their families in coming to Mass onSundays and in helping the candidates perform their Christian Service Requirements. This could be a breakthrough in the life of both the candidates and the sponsors. THE ENCOUNTER has happened.... THE CONVERSATION has begun.

THE SPONSOR'S BOOKLET: The General Norm and Personal Consideration


This booklet was prepared and were distributed to the sponsors and candidates. They used this to during the encounter and conversation.
............
Should I Be a Confirmation Sponsor?

Issue:
Having received an invitation to be a confirmation sponsor, how can a person decide whether to accept?

Response:
There are a number of considerations a person might make when deciding whether or not to accept the invitation to be a sponsor for confirmation.

They fall into two general categories:

1. Church Norms
2. Personal Considerations.

General Norm:

Discussion: The Church takes the role of a confirmation sponsor seriously. She regards the sponsor as a spiritual parent to the confirmand. The sponsor "is to take care that the confirmed person behaves as a true witness of Christ and faithfully fulfills the obligations inherent in this sacrament". Thus, the Church provides norms for confirmation sponsors for the benefit of both the confirmand and the sponsor.

Potential confirmation sponsors can evaluate themselves in light of the Church’s norms. These norms are identical to those for a godparent in a Catholic baptism. According to canon 874 of the Code of Canon Law, a sponsor for a Catholic confirmation must be a Catholic who:

is designated by the one to be confirmed, by the parents or the person who stands in their place, or in their absence by the pastor or minister has "the aptitude and intention" of fulfilling the function of sponsor meets the age requirement recognized in the diocese where the Confirmation takes place has been confirmed and has received the sacrament of Holy Eucharist leads a life of faith in keeping with the role to be undertaken is eligible to receive the sacraments and is not bound by any ecclesiastical penalty, and is not the mother or father of the child to be confirmed.

A Catholic may not be a sponsor for a non-Catholic confirmation. The Directory on Ecumenism states: "In the present state of our relations with the ecclesial Communities of the Reformation of the 16th century, we have not yet reached agreement about the significance or sacramental nature or even of the administration of the sacrament of Confirmation" (no. 101). These differences prevent a Catholic from being able to serve as a sponsor in a non-Catholic confirmation. The Church has pastoral reasons for this rule as well. The Directory on Ecumenism, no. 98, speaks of both baptism and confirmation: It is the Catholic understanding that godparents, in a liturgical and canonical sense, should themselves be members of the Church or ecclesial Community in which the confirmation is being celebrated. They do not merely undertake a responsibility for the Christian education of the person being confirmed as a relation or friend; they are also there as representatives of a community of faith, standing as guarantees of the candidate’s faith and desire for ecclesial communion.

As a representative of a community of faith, the sponsor either implicitly or explicitly affirms the faith of that community into which the candidate is being confirmed. Because non-Catholic understandings of confirmation do not harmonize with the Catholic understanding of confirmation, a Catholic could not in good faith assent to those beliefs. Because of the difference in beliefs and separation from the fullness of unity, the Catholic also could not fulfill the promise of helping the confirmand continue to grow in his own ecclesial community.

Even if a potential sponsor meets the requirements of canon law, personal considerations might encourage or discourage him from accepting the invitation. Such considerations include:

· Whether the potential sponsor is prepared to fulfill the duties of a confirmation sponsor. A sponsor becomes a spiritual parent to the confirmation candidate. The sponsor is to help guide the candidate in his faith. To ensure that a godparent is capable of this, Church law also insists that this person be at least 16 years old (for maturity's sake), fully initiated (having received Confirmation and Eucharist), be someone other than the legal parents and one who is a practicing member of the church who leads a life in harmony with the teachings of the Church.

· Sponsorship is a lifetime commitment. A sponsor should be prepared to pray for the confirmand regularly—not only prior to confirmation, but after confirmation. The sponsor might also consider whether he is prepared to maintain contact with the confirmand. (One catechist remarked that at the absolute minimum, the confirmand should be on the sponsor’s Christmas card list. Christmas cards, birthday cards, and confirmation anniversary cards, along with phone calls and visits, can be important elements in sustaining the relationship. Attending Mass together, along with participating in Church activities such as service projects, are other good ways of maintaining contact.)

· Sponsor leads a life of faith that he would want the confirmand to imitate. Candidates for confirmation generally ask a person to sponsor them because they like and admire that person. Though every human being sins, in general does the potential sponsor lead a life that someone could imitate and not be led astray? Is the potential sponsor ready to answer (or find answers to) the questions the candidate might have about the faith and about life in general?


Personal Considerations:

Read and Shed Light.

Have you ever wondered why some people have very involved godparents and sponsors, while others don't even know theirs? Perhaps part of the problem is that many godparents and sponsors were chosen for the wrong reasons, or because those same people don't really know what they're supposed to do! Do you? This workshop will help us to better understand these roles.

Most of us at some point have to choose a sponsor for ourselves, but how do we choose these people? Or you yourself may someday be asked to be a godparent or sponsor. What is expected of a sponsor or godparent today?


FOR CONFIRMATION CANDIDATES:
How to choose a sponsor

Confirmation can be a great experience, and hopefully you've thought a lot about what this sacrament means, and how the Holy Spirit will affect your life. You'll be required to have a sponsor—someone who will guide you and share the story of faith with you. A good sponsor will make this process a little easier and even more fun.

If all has gone as planned, the best person will be one of your baptismal godparents. The Catechism (#1311) and canon law (#892-893) both tell us that you need a sponsor. Having one of your godparents helps us to see how Baptism and Confirmation are connected. Sadly, by the time they get to Confirmation, many young people no longer know their godparents, or they're no longer good role models. Or maybe they just live too far away. These young people will need to choose a new sponsor.

Some advice to the candidates: You're looking for someone you trust, whose faith you admire and who will be there for you, that they be confirmed Catholics, at least 16 years old (for maturity) and practicing members of the Church, while not being your parents. This means you can choose a relative, friend or someone from your parish as your sponsor.

Take for example Julie and John, a happy couple who will have their first child confirmed. They're really into their Catholic faith, so they're excited to have their child confirmed. A big family celebration is planned, but John and Julie are wondering about sponsors. What about John's sister and her husband who helped them out so much during their hard times? It would be a great way to thank them—but they don't practice their faith. Or how about Julie's best friend, Mary, who is actively involved in a young Catholic adult program, even though Mary's husband is a devout practicing Protestant? Will this be all right with the Church?

Or take Kevin, an eighth-grader who will be confirmed at the end of the school year. He has asked his cool older brother, Mark, who goes to college 300 miles away, to be his Confirmation sponsor. Mark, who looks like he just stepped out of the High School Musical show, knows how much Kevin idolizes him, but he feels a bit uneasy about being a sponsor. Mark respects Kevin's faith and his decision to be confirmed, but he really hasn't gone to church or practiced his faith these last few years. Should Mark be honest with Kevin, and "just say no"? Should he not say anything and just accept? Or should Mark accept, but take a new, more serious look at his own faith?

As much as Kevin admires his brother, Kevin shouldn't choose Mark as a sponsor. And Mark shouldn't accept either. He isn't a bad person, but Mark has some faith issues he needs to work out first. Right now, Kevin needs someone who is active in church, can share why faith is important to him and who lives close enough to help Kevin with his preparation. So in choosing a sponsor, Kevin needs to take all these things seriously. So do you! Pray about it, and when you think you have the right person, ask him or her to help you grow in faith by being your sponsor!

This is a big day for you, and you want to do the right thing. Choosing a sponsor is a decision not to be taken lightly. Too often parents want to honor a special friend, repay a favor, or encourage a nonrelative to have a closer relationship with their child. While all of these motives are well intentioned, they are not ideal.

Above all, a sponsor serves a special role for one to be confirmed. Sponsors are to represent the Catholic Community, the Church. They are to assist in the preparation of the candidate and to be supportive of them afterwards.

What does this mean for our friends John and Julie that we mentioned above? As much as Julie and John appreciate all the help that John's sister and brother-in-law have given them, this is not a good motive for having them be sponsors. Rather, John and Julie should choose a firm believer, someone who is truly committed to the Catholic faith in which their child will be confirmed. Thus, Julie's best friend, Mary, so active in her faith, is a perfect choice. But what about Mary's husband who is not Catholic, since John and Julie want a married couple to be sponsors? The Church has a solution for this too!

Since Mary is a practicing Catholic, and a perfect choice as a godmother, she will be the officially designated sponsor, while her husband—a great Christian and committed to his own faith—can serve as an official witness. This is fully in line with canon law (see #874). Only one sponsor is necessary. So while Mary's husband—a witness—will set an example, it will be Mary's duty as sponsor to share specifics of the Catholic faith.

All this may seem like quite a bit, but the purpose is to ensure that the rich and beautiful faith of the Church is passed on to your child in the most loving and authentic way possible. Hopefully you know by now that the task of choosing godparents is one which should be performed with much prayer, careful thought and with greatest concern for the precious spiritual life of your child.

FOR SPONSORS:
Be at your best

If you think that the role of parents and candidates in choosing sponsors is a serious one, so is the role of being a sponsor. Being chosen is an honor, and says a lot about the parents and the candidate’s perception of you.

I remember how excited and humbled I was when my brother and sister-in-law asked me to be the sponsor for their first baby. Even though I'm a priest, I had to consider the investment of time and energy it would require of me. So remember not to rush into anything too quickly here! Make sure that you have the time, the willingness and the faith to live out this sacred vocation.

A vocation is a calling, an appeal to live something out in your life. This child is calling you to be somebody special in his/her: to set an example, help teach him/her about the Catholic faith, have a lifelong relationship of prayer, faith sharing and love.

You should ask, "Can I share my faith unashamedly? Do I live close enough to really get to know my godchild? Am I an active member of my local Catholic parish?" If you are from another parish, you'll be asked for a letter from your home parish attesting to your active faith in the Church. If you're an active Catholic, getting such a letter from your pastor will be easy. If you're not, maybe you need to question your fitness to serve as a sponsor at this time. But if you are able to say yes to these questions and if your faith makes you ready to accept this honorable vocation, here are a few helpful hints to assist you in being the best sponsor that you can be:

If you have been chosen to be a Confirmation sponsor, congratulations! This person sees in you a profound faith commitment, finds trust and knows you are someone who will care about him/her and his/her faith. Sounds impressive, doesn't it? It's not all that complicated, but it does take time, a caring heart and a listening ear. If you're a practicing, mature Catholic, don't get too worried. Here are a few suggestions on how to be the best possible sponsor for your candidate:

· Be a living model of faith. At least a part of what this young person admires in you is your faith! If the way you practice your faith is not what it should be, "get it together," so to speak! Your life doesn't have to become artificially saintly, but your faith should be authentic and sincere.

· Prepare with the parents. If you are in the same parish with the candidate and his/her family, it would be best if you could come to Sunday worship with them, if possible, together with your own family, or even have the courage to come to Reconciliation together.

· Pray for your candidate and yourself. As candidates decide to be confirmed, they need spiritual strength. Your prayers for them are important, but don't forget to pray for yourself also, that you can share why you value and practice your Catholicism.

· Give of your time and share your gifts. You'll be asked to spend time together on various activities. This may mean preparing lessons or even working on a Christian service project. You could also share your own experiences or write a letter of encouragement. Let your unique God-given talents and gifts shine! Offer a gift of spiritual significance—a new Bible, rosary or book about our faith or about the saint the candidate has chosen for a Confirmation name—but be creative and relevant!

· Don't miss the ceremony. Participating in the ceremony is the easiest part of being a sponsor. Your basic job will be to place your hand on your candidate's shoulder, and tell the bishop your candidate's Confirmation name. You're there to be a support, but your role on Confirmation day is only beginning.

· Don't forget this newly confirmed Catholic. After Confirmation day, remember birthdays and this anniversary. Send a card or make a phone call. Continue to worship together, or from time to time do some Christian service. Put those "Gifts of the Spirit" into practice.

· Don't forget the "big day"! Hopefully you will always remember your godchild's biological birthday, but don't forget this “rebirth” during which he received the gifts of the Holy Spirit becoming an adult member of the Catholic Church. Make a phone call or send a card. Better yet, suggest having a get-together to honor this day each year.

· Share the faith that's been shared with you. Teach about his or her patron or name saint. Continue your lifelong relationship by participating in your godchild's wedding. Remember, being a godparent is about more than a Confirmation ceremony




Monday, November 3, 2008

NOVEMBER 9 SESSION - Reminders

Sunday, November 9 - SESSION 3

1. You are expected to arrive in Church at around 11:10 am.

2. Sign the Attendance Sheet as you arrive.

3. Sign-up for the Liturgical Service (Ushers, Tithe Collector, Bread-Wine-Tithe Basket and Bulletin Distributor)

4. Each Candidate is expected to have completed at least 4 hours of Christian Service.

5. For families who have not signed-up to volunteer in providing and preparing light lunch prior to the session, please expect a call from us.

6. Candidates are expected to have already asked their sponsors to come with them at the Session.

7. Please read the blog which I posted last October 15.